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Saturday, 05 September 2009

  • Currently
    The 3 Mistakes of My Life
    By Chetan Bhagat
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    Aaaaand another year of monotnous routine...

    Oh yeah, school reopened which is well alright but unlike any other year, its only been 3 days and i already have a fucking huge load of homework. I guess, the fact that im in my IG year right now would be why i have so much work, but that doesnt mean i have to like it. Its just totally annoying, cuz last year was a breeze - well really all the other years was a breeze- and suddenly BHAM we have a huge load of presssure and an even huger load of work to finish which i dont think is all that nice really. Cuz what if i go into some sorta panic attack with the sudden pressure and i end up having a heart attack or something? Im going to blame it all on the british school of Kuwait, oh and my parents too.

    Cuz its not only the school thats been giving me pressure, its mostly my parents too. Which is also well understandable cuz im an indian and my cousins are all fucking geniuses. Like they are the kinda people who get sad at a 95% average! And so my mum wants me to make them proud and blah blah.You get the idea? Thats really bullshit cuz really what if someone ends  up getting like a 100 %, how do i become higher than that? And my cousins are all like total nerds and im well nothing like them! Like for instance, im the school basketball team, debating team, volleyball team and the student coucil rep and them? Well lets jsut say that they had a serious problem with extra curicular activities in their university applications cuz the only extra-curricular they did was being a prefect!

    Sigh, in some ways i would have loved to graduate or write my ig's like 4 years ago or something cuz the standard required was much lower and there wasnt much competetion. But now everyones succeeding and getting like 90% above, so how am i supposed to compete with that? Its bull shit really. And instead of being sympathetic about this, our parents and the school just gives us tons of work and a hell load of pressure to do it. Well i for one, refuse to do so and to show that im not going to do so im not going to do my homework for tommorow.

    Erm, just pray that my history sir buys this excuse :/

     

Tuesday, 11 August 2009

  • What do i love/ hate? :P

        WHAT/WHO I LOVE?

    ·         Myself

    ·         Basketball

    ·         Kevin Garnett

    ·         Paramore

    ·         Ryan Reynolds

    ·         The rain

    ·         Singing in the shower

    ·         Reading

    ·         Doing things I shouldn’t be doing

    ·         Watching horror movies

    ·         Java chip frappucino with extra caramel

    ·         Farhan Akhtar

    ·         The Hush sound

    ·         Doritos

    ·         India

    ·         Ice cream

    ·         Meeting new people

    ·         Hand accessories

    ·         Sleeping

    ·         Ice skating

    ·         Double chocolate chip muffins

    ·         Dreaming

     

    WHAT/WHO I HATE?

    ·         False pretences

    ·         Mettalica

    ·         Mushrooms

    ·         Brussel sprouts

    ·         Perfectionists

    ·         Waking up

    ·         Snakes

    ·         Reports

    ·         Long hair

    ·         Papaya’s

    ·         Math

    ·         Boredom

    ·         Kylie minogue

    ·         Blazing, hot sun

    ·         War

    ·         Control freaks

    ·         Racists

Thursday, 02 July 2009

  • bucket list for summer '09

    Being stuck in Kuwait for the summer is pretty much the worst punishment my mum could possible give me because of the blazing heat and lack of anything to do down here.
    But surprisingly, this summers been going pretty good to me and in about 7 days its goingto get much better because im going to our summer house in Dubai
    So i have decided to make a bucket list for my time in Kuwait and in Dubai:

    Save up money for the gorgeous tankini in BHS
    Somehow sweet talk my dad into getting me an ipod touch
    Invite everyone to my place for a crazy dance party
    Learn to skateboard
    Bungee jump
    Meet celebrities (only works in dubai)
    Lose about 5 kg without going on a crash diet!!
    Go rock climbing with Meshal
    Get green extensions for my hair
    Go BBQ-ing by the beach
    Spend a whole day with the family without touching my cell or laptop
    Buy more art supplies
    Get everyone for a picnic by the beach
    Learn how to play the guitar
    Try to go a week without lying about anything
    Play GTA with my brothers and figure out what the fuss is all about
    Get a shot in from the halfcourt line (basketball)
    Go skinny dipping
    Try iceskating without iceskates :D
    Teach Nihal how to play guitar hero!

    Hmm thats all i can think of now but sure will add to if there's anything more to add

    Btw, the credit for this idea all goes to GiantUnicorn..thanks :))

Monday, 29 June 2009

  • Currently
    He's Just Not That Into You
    By Ben Affleck, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Connelly, Kevin Connolly
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    A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini

    So yesterday i got this book called " A thousand splendid suns" by Khaled Hosseini who is the author of Kiterunner as well and so naturally i was interested because kiteruner was one of my most favourite books...
    And it was soo worth the half a day i spent reading it! Its probably one of the most touching, heartbreaking story i have read recently. Usually im not a fan of such novels (im mostly into romantic comedy and horror) but Khaled Hosseini is the exception. I have only read Kiterunner and A thousand splenind suns so far but i totally plan to get any other books of his as soon as possible.

    So this story is set in afghanistan and the main characters this story revolves around are: Two women caled Mariam and Laila (i tottaly admire Laila's characer throughout the story) . He first talks about Mariams childhood and her life as a "harami" (illegitemate child) and later how shes married off to a man of age 40 at the age of 15 (which sounds really gay to me but wasnt so gay for her family apparently). Then he talks about Laila a girl who lives in the same neighbourhood as Mariams husband and how she loses her parents in a bomb attack and is married to Mariams husband who can i just add is a tottally brutal man. He so goes up my 10-people-who-if-i-see-will-kick-them-right-up-their-ass list, probably right below Hannah montana. So yes, Laila gets married to mariams husband as his second wife (which is perfectly natural at that period, i know wierd eh? ) and Rashed(mariam and laila's husband) is real happy now because Mariam have'nt been able to give him a baby boy which he wants and he hopes that Laila will be able to do so. But horrors horrors Laila had other motives for accepting the marriage with Rasheed. . .she was already pregnant with her childhood sweethearts baby! Oh by the way, this childhood sweetheart Tariq has only one leg but Laila loves him all the same!

    So Aziza is born (Laila's daughter) and shes absolutely sweet and gorgeous but Raseed doesnt like her and he hates Laila now because Laila didnt give him a baby boy (By this point, im almost seething with anger because seriously what a sexist pig!!) But Laila loves Aziza and so does Mariam and because of Aziza, Mariam forgives Laila for stealing her husband (But seriously why would she want a husband like Rasheed in the first place beats me! ). Meanwhile Kabul, where they are living, is not under Taliban control and so there are strict, conservative islamic ules and women are entirely powerless. Women are no long allowed to go to school or work or even walk around without a mehrem (which is a male consort, in Mariam and Lailas case its Rasheed) and so people moving out of Kabul, especially because now conditions are real worse in Kabul and even Mariam and Laila tries this. Laila had been stealing money from Rasheed for a long time now and she had about enough moeny to run away and she asks Mariam to join her as well. But at the border, when they tried to seek aid from a man who they thought looked good hearted enough to help them he took their money and double crossed them (what a serious jerk!) and so Laila and Mariam end up with Rasheed again who bests them to death and lock them up without food or water for three days.

    After that, Laila becomes pregnant again but this time with Rasheed's baby who turns out to be a boy. But oh my god, the conditions that she had to be operated in was so terrible that i almost cried. She didnt even have anasthesia!!! So yes, Laila has anther baby and its a boy, named Zalmai, so Rasheed is happy as well. But being the sexist bastard that he is, Rasheed is only happy with Zalmai and not anyone else. Not even Azizia. And he still continues to treat them all miserably. He doesnt even have a job by now because his shop was burnt and so he was home more, constantly in a bad mood which meant that he beat Laila and Mariam up more than usual. So, when he got more and more poorer he first tried to force Laila to make Aziza a beggar but when he figured out that Laila would rather die than do that he told her that he cant feed Aziza as well and that it would be better for her to go to an orphanage. Laila thankfully allows for this  because she felt it might be better for Aziza as well. Fortunately, the orphanage director is a nice man and he takes good care of Aziza, atleast he tries his best to because the orphanage is low on economic resources.

    Now there is somethign you all must know, at the beginning some man comes to Rasheeds place just a bit after Rasheed rescued Laila and tells her that Tariq died, which is one reason she married Rasheed. Now, the plot thickens because Tariq comes back and hes ALIVE! Apparently he was never dead and Laila being smart figures out that it might have been Rasheeds man. So she talks and talks with Tariq until a little before Rasheed comes back from work and her love for him renews. But Zalmai on the other hand, becomes jelous and takes an instant disliking to Rasheed and so when Rasheed comes back he snitches about Tariq coming back. Rasheed, duh, gets angry and locks Zalmai up in a room and  beats Laila and Mariam up. But this is the last time hes going to beat them up because Mariam gets something from the shed (i cant seem to remmber what) and kills Rasheed with it (finally an end to his murderous ways). She then decides to take blame for it so that Laila can be free and live happily and so she gets sentenced to death (A heroic ending for her if i must say-i teared up a bit here).

    Laila then goes on to Pakistan with Tariq and Aziza (yaay shes back with her family) and Zalmai (who still doesnt like Tariq) and they surprisingly have some trouble-free times there. But meanwhile Afghanistan is on the verge of getting independence and Laila becomes homesick. Her brothers had died fighting for her country and her mom had wanted to be in Afghanistan when it becomes free (alas she died) . So now that they all were dead, Laila felt respoinsible to be there for them so that "they could see it through her eyes" and so they left the safety of Pakistan. But first she went to Herat, which was Mariams hometown (which was nice of her, dnt you think? ) and then she went to Kabul where they lived happily ever after as a family( because by the end Zalmai has somewhat warmed upto Tariq)

    *Sigh* so there you go! Thats the entire story summed up as short AS POSSIBLE! But i would seriously advice you to read the book because i havnt really mentioned the political tensions going on much which really is an important part of the story. All in all, this a good read for everyone out there and something that you just have to buy
    Also, If there are any Khaled Hosseini books that you particulary liked, i would be really interested in knowing about them :))

Thursday, 25 June 2009

  • Currently
    Goodbye Blues
    By The Hush Sound
    carry me home
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    Is it possible for them to be our best friends?

    As a girl, i've always found guys to be really good friends because unlike girls they are not really all that emotional and they rarely gossip or talk behind you backs. But i havnt even had one friendship last for over a year before they made a move on me or thought that i was making a move on them and makes it all awkward between us. Which made me think whether guys are just not conditioned to be best friends with girls...?

    Which would totally suck because the friends that i have had in the past, no matter how short it lasted have always been such a relief to talk to. They could give me a guys perspective when needed and they have never let emotions cloud them when i needed a true judgement on things. They were also always available when i needed a shoulder to cry on or i just need someone to vent out on. *sigh* why cant they just want to remain friends??

    And i know, a lot of you would think that if they are all so awesome why cant i just date them? But well, when i tried dating one of them thing just got super awkward between us because all of a sudden there were things i couldnt tell him and thinga that i had to keep away from him and it just got wierd. So yeah friends and boyfriends cannot be one person, or wait maybe they can but only to a certain extent.

    Another option i guess, would be homosexuals. They, i guess, are the closest i can get to a best friend  in a man. Its a pity i dont know many homosexuals :/

    So yeah what do you all think? Can guys be best friends or should we be happy with homosexuals? Also have you ever been best friends with youboyfriend and not found it super awkward? dish it out people :))

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